HELLO TO THOSE WHO READ THIS BLOG:
Tomorrow, October 9th, is my 27th wedding anniversary with Michael. It is also the 3rd anniversary without him.
This date has hung over me all week. I’ve tried hard, but I just can’t shake the sadness. So I’ve decided I’m going to honor it instead. Yesterday, someone who knew I was hurting more intensely this week emailed me and said, “It makes so much sense that this is a difficult time, and that even getting out of bed may feel hard right now. I hope you can allow yourself to be exactly where you are today, without needing to do or accomplish anything. Let the bed hold you, and give yourself permission to be gentle with all that you’re carrying. ”
I’m taking her advice, and allowing myself to be exactly where I am right now.
Happy 27th anniversary, Michael. I so wish you were here.
Rock yourself gently, my friend. Sending hugs…
Thanks, Jean.
Hi Kathie,
I’m thinking of you today, and I agree, you should let yourself be where you are – in the pain and sadness of missing Michael. Give yourself some grace and know you are surrounded by love.
xo,
Jeanne
Thanks, Jeanne.